Ettiquete & FAQs
Who do you see?
Kindness, respect, empathy, and humanity are values I hold closely. I am thoughtful about the connections I choose to make and value interactions grounded in mutual respect, openness, and consideration.
I welcome people from all backgrounds and appreciate the diversity of race, ethnicity, age, body type, identity, and lived experience. If you value kindness, respect, and genuine human connection, we’ll likely get along well.
Why do you blur your face in pictures?
My privacy, safety and your discretion are important to me. To maintain confidentiality and protect our privacy, I choose to share my face only in person.
Do you offer online services?
No. I do not offer online services, including texting, phone calls, video calls, selfies, or digital content.
I do not have and will never create accounts on platforms such as OnlyFans, Patreon, or similar subscription-based services.
This is my first time.
How exciting! I’m so glad you’re considering sharing this experience with me, whether it’s your first time meeting a companion or simply your first time meeting me.
To help make your introduction as comfortable and enjoyable as possible, I offer a special package designed for first-time clients.
Please note that screening information and a deposit are required to secure your appointment.
I would like to meet you. How do I make a booking?
Booking with me is simple. The quickest way to reach me is via SMS. When contacting me, please include:
Your name and a brief introduction about yourself
Your preferred date, time, and location (please specify whether you are seeking an incall or outcall)
The type of date and duration you have in mind
Any preferred times for me to respond
I value courteous, respectful, and clear communication. Thoughtful enquiries with clear details are always appreciated and help me respond as efficiently as possible.
To respect my time and keep the booking process smooth, I may not respond to messages that are excessive, unclear, or incomplete.
Why do I have to pay a deposit?
A deposit is required to reserve dedicated time together and reflects genuine intention and mutual respect for our time and commitment.
Please note that all deposits are strictly non-refundable.
Making a payment is quick and simple. I provide clear instructions, but if you’re unsure about anything, please don’t hesitate to ask.
Please follow all payment instructions exactly as provided. Any funds sent incorrectly or with an incorrect payment description/reference may be forfeited and cannot be refunded or credited.
Why do I have to provide screening information?
For my safety, screening is mandatory and non-negotiable. It is a standard requirement for all bookings.
Your privacy is always respected. I treat any information you share with care, keep it confidential, and securely delete it after our first meeting.
When can I see you, and how much notice do you need?
I’m so glad you’re interested in meeting.
While I don’t work full-time, I’m often flexible with my availability when plans are made in advance. For shorter dates, I kindly ask for at least 24 hours’ notice where possible. For extended dates, I appreciate two weeks’ notice to allow for thoughtful planning.
Occasionally, I may have availability for same-day bookings. You can stay updated via my profiles on Scarlet Blue, Tryst, and Ivy Societe.
Please note that response times may vary. I appreciate your patience and understanding. If you have specific timing requirements for a response, please include them in your enquiry.
What do I need to prepare on our date?
Time
Please arrive on time and let me know if you are running early or late. As our time together begins at the scheduled start time, late arrivals may reduce the length of our date.
If you arrive early, I will do my best to accommodate you where possible, though I can't always guarantee it.
To ensure a smooth and respectful experience for us both, I kindly ask that you honour our agreed time. While I genuinely enjoy our time together, please be mindful not to overstay.
Punctuality and professionalism are important to me. For outcall bookings, you can expect me to arrive on time, and I will keep you updated on my travel progress and estimated arrival.
Consideration
Consideration is to be provided at the beginning of our time together.
If we are meeting in public, I kindly ask that you place it discreetly in a thank-you card or small gift bag for our mutual privacy and discretion.
Hygiene and health
For comfort, hygiene, and mutual well-being, you must shower at the beginning of our meeting. For your convenience, I provide clean towels, soap, and mouthwash at my incall.
If you arrive with any open or uncovered wounds, contagious conditions, visible skin infections, or any health or hygiene concern that may compromise safety or comfort, I reserve the right to end or cancel our meeting immediately. In such circumstances, the full booking fee will still apply.
Can you personalise the Date?
Absolutely. I would be delighted to personalise our time together to create an experience that feels thoughtful, meaningful, and tailored to you.
If you have ideas, preferences, or something special in mind, please feel free to share them when enquiring. Thoughtful planning is always welcome.
Do you offer Fly Me to You, and can I take you on a holiday?
Potentially. I am open to longer experiences and travel with the right chemistry, mutual comfort, and thoughtful planning.
Whether it is a fly-me-to-you arrangement, a weekend escape, or a longer holiday together, I consider these experiences on a case-by-case basis and generally require additional notice.
If you have something special in mind, I warmly welcome you to share the details when enquiring.
I had such a wonderful time with you! Can I leave a review?
I would be delighted to receive a thoughtful note from you. You are warmly welcome to share your experience via email or leave a review on Ivy Societe.
Please note that I do not consent to reviews being published on any website or platform other than those mentioned above.
I kindly ask that reviews remain respectful, tasteful, and non-explicit, as I value elegance in all forms of communication.
What are your boundaries?
To maintain a positive and professional experience, I have clear boundaries in place that support respectful communication and protect my safety and well-being.
These expectations reflect mutual respect and common courtesy. If boundaries are not respected, I reserve the right to end our professional relationship and decline future communication.
My work is grounded in professionalism, and I firmly believe that sex work is real work. I expect respect for both myself and my profession.
Please honour all agreed arrangements and boundaries.
Communication is strictly limited to arranging bookings and takes place via SMS or email only.
I do not engage in direct messaging or parasocial interactions through social media.
Please refrain from booking if your intention is to seek mentorship, ask deeply personal or intrusive questions, or gather information about entering the industry.
Respectful, considerate, hygienic, and non-discriminatory behaviour is expected at all times. Disrespectful, manipulative, predatory, coercive, discriminatory, obsessive, unsafe, or otherwise inappropriate behaviour will result in the immediate end of our professional relationship.
Any misuse of my personal information, harassment, threats, stalking, intimidation, or aggressive behaviour is a serious violation of trust and may be reported to the appropriate authorities.
Thank you for respecting my boundaries and helping create a safe, healthy, and mutually comfortable experience.
Important things to know:
While companionship can be meaningful and special, it is not a substitute for therapy, counselling, mental health support, or a romantic relationship.
I value genuine connection during our time together. However, I can’t provide ongoing emotional support, personal relationship dynamics, or connections that extend beyond the scope of professional companionship.
Cancellations and refund policy:
Deposits are strictly non-refundable. However, you may reschedule an appointment once within a 2-month period.
To reschedule, I kindly ask for a minimum of:
3 hours’ notice for incall appointments
5 hours’ notice for outcall appointments
If you don’t provide sufficient notice, the deposit will be forfeited.
If I need to cancel, I will fully refund your deposit. I will provide the same notice period outlined above wherever possible, and always as early as I reasonably can.